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Life with the Grays
Faith. Family. Life. Together.
We’re the Grays, a family following Jesus and learning what it looks like to live out our faith in every part of life.
Welcome to Life with the Grays
Following Jesus. Loving Family. Living Out Our Faith.
For more than 20 years, our family has been learning what it means to follow God together through marriage, parenting, business, ministry, music, creativity, hard seasons, unexpected opportunities, and plenty of everyday life in between.
Along the way, God has allowed us to build businesses, create music and books, disciple believers, raise our daughters, serve communities, make mistakes, learn some lessons the hard way, and watch Him remain faithful through it all.
Life with the Grays is where we bring those conversations together.
We believe following Jesus should touch every part of life. Life with the Grays is where we share what we're learning as faith meets family, relationships, money, business, creativity, purpose, ministry, and the ordinary moments around the kitchen table.
As we surrender our lives to God's will, we're continuing to learn, grow, laugh, and follow Jesus together.
If you've been with our family for years, we're grateful you're still here. And if you're just finding us, pull up a chair and welcome to Life with the Grays.
Hear what God has been teaching our family and why we’re inviting you into this next season with us.
We desire to live lives that demonstrate what Kingdom life looks like when God is not simply a part of our lives, but is our life in everything.
Every Area Belongs to Him
Faith was never meant to remain in one corner of our lives. We’re exploring what it looks like when every area is yielded to Him.
Covenant, communication, intimacy, friendship, forgiveness, and learning to become one God’s way.
Identity, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, responsibility, obedience, and becoming the man God created you to be.
Identity, marriage, motherhood, calling, surrender, creativity, and becoming the woman God designed you to be.
Raising children, cultivating family culture, creating legacy, learning together, and allowing God to lead the life of our homes.
Faith, identity, relationships, hearing God, making decisions, and navigating new seasons with Him.
Entrepreneurship, stewardship, finances, wealth, work, ownership, generosity, and allowing God to lead what we do with what He places in our hands.
Music, songwriting, books, publishing, media, imagination, and surrendering our creativity to the One who gave it to us.
Knowing God, following Jesus, prayer, worship, discipleship, obedience, serving others, and living surrendered to Him.
And Then There’s
The conversations, laughter, decisions, mistakes, meals, celebrations, lessons, and ordinary moments where we’re learning that life with God was never meant to be reserved for Sundays.
The Bigger Picture
Kingdom life isn’t another part of life. It is the life.
Our Story
One of the greatest lessons God has taught our family is that following Him requires us to hold our own plans with open hands.
We’ve had plenty of plans over the years. Some unfolded much differently than we expected. Some changed completely. Some required us to wait. And some opportunities appeared that we never could have planned for ourselves.
Again and again, God has invited us to trust His direction more than our ability to understand what comes next.
“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.”
Proverbs 19:21 NIVSometimes obedience has meant moving forward before we could see the whole picture. Other times it has meant changing direction, releasing something we wanted, waiting longer than we expected, or simply remaining where God told us to stay.
Through every season, we’re learning that surrender does not mean having no plans. It means allowing God to have the final word over them.
What We’re Learning
We can make plans. We can work. We can prepare. We can faithfully steward what He places in our hands. But God remains the Master Builder.
We certainly haven’t gotten every decision right, and we’re still learning. But His faithfulness has taught us that we don’t have to carry the pressure of making our own purpose prevail. Our responsibility is to remain close to Him, listen for His direction, and respond when He leads.
Two Ways to Join Us
Whether you simply want to stay connected with our family or you’re ready to go deeper with us, there’s a place for you in Life with the Grays.